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Four Advice and tips on dating and love after a relationship breakdown No matter how strong you are, jumping back into the dating pool after breaking up, is tough, especially if you came out of a long-term relationship. It takes time to start dating again and it is best to give yourself time! Want to start dating again? Here are some of the most effective tips and advice that can help you get your dating life back on track! Wait Until Ready It is not wise to put on your dating shoes immediately after a breakup. No matter how brutally your relationship ended, you will have a night when you will cry yourself to sleep, or get super-aggressive if you come across anything related to your past relationship. It is best to wait until you have fully processed your grieving. Take your time to heal. Do not Compare You need to understand that your ex is not a standard you want to set for your life partner. The only reason you are not together is that the person was not right for you. Do not compare every person with your ex as it is a very unhealthy habit that can destroy your love life! Reflect on your Last Relationship Use your past relationship as a lesson for your future dating decisions. List down all that you loved in your last relationship and what you did not like. These lists will help you define the perfect match for you and help you make the right decisions. Do Not Rush It As a retaliation after a breakup, many individuals rush into newer relationships. It will be no less than poison for you. It will build a feeling of hollowness in your heart, which will affect your mental health! Therefore, do not rush it. Being single is not a sim, give yourself time, and save yourself from another traumatic breakup! It is a tough time for you, do not let it get it to you and turn you into a cynical individual. Surround yourself with the people who love you and give yourself time to heal from a bad breakup. Register and join for free at www.broosis.com.

''In youth, it was a way I had,

To do my best to please.

And change, with every passing lad

To suit his theories.

But now I know the things I know

And do the things I do,

And if you do not like me so,

To hell, my love, with you.'' ~ Dorothy Parker

Self-esteem is the opinion you have of yourself. If you have low self-esteem, it can affect your insight about yourself and also your romantic relationship. You may not feel worthy of love or have abandonment issues. Low self-esteem is directly proportionate to low relationship satisfaction and low trust. However, by challenging your mindset, and by adjusting the communication with your partner, self-esteem can be boosted during the honeymoon period of dating your perfect match. Because it is worth it. What is not worth is being single because of what low self-esteem entails.

Practice Being Assertive

Low self-esteem may cause difficulty in being expressive in the relationship. You should try to be assertive in your relationship by personally and truthfully communicating your wants, needs, feelings, beliefs, and opinions. This way, you can find your voice, and you can value what you think and feel in the relationship.

Believe The Positive Things Your Partner Says About You

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Your partner might see in you what you are not able to see. He or she might find you good looking, intelligent, warm-hearted, and honest. You should believe what your partner says instead of staying in denial. Take a dip in your partner’s perspective, and you will realize that you possess all the qualities mentioned in the compliments.

Avoid Constantly Seeking Approval

Tell yourself that you do not need anyone’s approval, either from your parents, friends, or partner. Your partner’s approval may feel good, but this feeling is temporary and is needed again. You don’t want to find yourself in a never-ending battle for validation, and often getting upset when you don’t get approval at every turn. You are significant and special, and you don’t need anyone’s approval to be loved or cared about.

"You are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody" - Maya Angelou



''Self-love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another person until you know how to love yourself.'' Wisely said indeed, by a romantic who wasn’t a cliched hopeless one like the famous characters in well-known love stories with a tragic climax.

We might fantasise a tragic love story on the silver screen, but dating in real life should be anything but a comedy. Here are four reasons why the key to a happy love life is self-love.


Empty Glass Theory


Imagine a pair of glasses in a set; that is the couple. And water in the glass is love. If one glass is empty, it will naturally have no water to pour in the other glass; a person has to love oneself to have enough love in the heart to offer it to the partner.


Strong Boundaries Around Dating And Love


Only a person with self-love is confident enough to be assertive with their partner. Self-love adds a selfish purpose to life. This, in turn, leads to empowered romantic choices and saves the heartaches of dating the wrong people who aren’t good for you. Maybe by setting boundaries, you’ll find the perfect match for you by narrowing the candidates.


Riddance From Seeking Approval


If you love yourself, you will only need your approval and not your partner’s or crush’s. This is the most liberating feeling in the world. Moreover, it creates room to be original and less defensive. This attitude helps you live a life more aligned with your own values and not only the values of your partner.


Being More Attractive


In general people with ample self-love, self-respect and self-esteem, exude a plethora of confidence, assertiveness and self-assurance. These traits are deemed the sexiest of all in available singles. Fortunately, these qualities are in everyone’s control and are not at the mercy of the unfair genetic code. Consequently, anyone can be desirable. Anyone can have an amazing and a literally mind-blowing sex life. There are no excuses for pleasure-deprived dating.

''Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.'' – Lucille Ball


The thought of a first date is always overwhelming.

You want your first date to be perfect to make sure that it won’t be your last! The stakes are even higher when you’ve met your partner on an online dating website. Dive in to learn some invaluable, timeless first date tips every man and woman should know.


1. Just Be Yourself

This is perhaps the best first-date tip anyone can ever give to you! It may sound vague and too mainstream but believe us when we say that this is the trick to make the right person fall in love with you.

The idea is to be friendly, warm, and considerate. Don’t say or do something that is too serious or too weird. Planning a decent date and acting like a decent person is the way to go. 

2. Don't Be Late

This might sound like common advice that fits every scenario but showing up on time on our first date is very important. You wouldn’t want your date to think that your meeting with them wasn’t important enough to plan your day accordingly, right? Even if you run into some unexpected situation and can’t help but arrive late, inform your date by calling them and apologizing for the wait. We’re sure they’ll understand if it’s an unforeseen circumstance but otherwise, just don’t be late!   

3. Let Your Dress Speak For You

Dressing well on your first date won’t only help you come off as a person who takes pride in their appearance but will also make your date realize that you’re a catch. Therefore, take a shower, brush your teeth, and dress your best. Make sure that you wear something you feel good and comfortable in – and don’t forget to wear good shoes!

4. Map Out Your Date In Advance

Planning a date, especially the first one is always daunting. If you can do it well, you’ll set yourself up for a memorable time with your potential life partner.

Ideally, your first date should include two things: a nice meal and a fun activity. Remember, it doesn’t have to be too expensive. In fact, smaller restaurants tend to be quieter, less crowded, and more intimate… fewer expenses will just be a bonus!

When you already have everything planned, there will be little to no awkward silences and no pressure on any of you to come up with a conversation topic. 

5. Offer Compliments

On your first date, there’s a high chance that your date would’ve put in their best efforts to look good for you – just like you would do for them. So, don’t hesitate to compliment them if you feel like doing so. Anything along the lines of ‘You look great!’, ‘you have a nice smile’ and ‘You make me feel comfortable’ will surely flatter them. But again, don’t take it too far. You wouldn’t want to tell a person on the very first date that you want to marry them.

While first dates can cause even the most confident person to break into nervous sweats, the aforementioned first date tips will help you make sure that you hit it off with your partner right away!

If you have a date scheduled for Valentine’s Day but you’re having second thoughts about whether it’ll be safe or not, then you’ve come to the right place.

Following are some safe dating tips for all you single folks who are getting (back) in the dating game:

       1. Keep Your GPS On to Share Live Location with Friends or Family.

- It is always important to let your friends or family know your location at all times when you’re meeting someone new. If you decide to drive around town after the date or if the date insists on dropping you home then it is best for someone to track your location to make sure the date isn’t taking you somewhere else.

2. Keep Your Alcohol Intake in Check.

- You need to be in your complete senses so that you can make a good impression on your date and be safe. Although this may be difficult, reject that extra glass of wine as your date might take advantage of you after you get tipsy.

3. Go to a Public Place.

- When meeting someone for the first time, it is best to meet them in a public place for your own safety. An added bonus is that if the date gets boring or you start getting creepy vibes from the other person, you can leave immediately.

4. Do NOT Believe Everything Your Date Says About Themselves.

- The first impression is the last impression for many people. So, on the first date, your date may try their best to impress you (to get into your pants, perhaps). DO NOT fall for this trap. Give it a few more dates before you come to a decision about the other person’s personality.

By following these basic safe dating tips, no harm is bound to come your way.


Happy Valentine's Day

Team Broosis  

Have you started feeling the love and romance in the air? Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and perhaps you can already hear the symphony of love ringing in your ears. While men and women who have already been shot by the cupid can’t wait to shower their partner with love and affection, single people may feel lonelier this time of the year than they do on rest of the days.

If you still haven’t fallen in love with someone and don’t see yourself finding the perfect man or woman in the next few weeks, online dating websites are here to your rescue! Finding the right person to spend your life with is a challenging process but with free online dating sites, it doesn’t have to be this way.

If you are single and looking for love this New Year, dating websites have got you covered!  


Filter, Filter, Filter Until You Get the Perfect Match!

From a man seeking women of a certain age group or ethnicity to women seeking men with certain qualities, free dating sites take care of everything! While online dating websites have made it easier for you to find a partner of your choice, the duration of your relationship is very well in your hands. Taking a step ahead of the free dating sites, let us see how you can keep the spark alive in your relationship and make your partner fall head over heels in love with you.

How to be a good boyfriend

No matter how handsome and charming of a guy you are, dating can be hard. Love is a complex maze that needs to be entered carefully, especially when you have found the woman of your dreams.

The following tips will make you a stellar boyfriend this Valentine’s Day.

1. Don’t hesitate to compromise – whenever and how much you can.


2. Never step back from showing a simple act of love and care.


3. Be ready to lend a listening ear.


4. Be open-minded and willing to try new things out.


5. Always respect your girlfriend’s interest

How to be a good girlfriend

If you are a woman seeking a partner for a long-term relationship, here are just a few tips that can help you be the best girlfriend ever!

1. Be his friend before being his girlfriend.


2. Always be honest with him.


3. Don’t suffocate him – give him space whenever he needs it.


4. Don’t shy away from saying what is on your mind.


5. Take good care of him and support him in all walks of life

With these online dating tips in mind, no man or woman can go wrong in a romantic relationship. Among a 100 free dating sites, Broosis is one of the best dating websites and a leading matchmaker where you can find the ‘one’ person you have always been looking for!

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